Take Out The Trash

This morning I awoke with the answer...Brenda,you are stuck because you are accumulating problems rather than reducing them. It is so true...for every 3 problems my family and me eliminate,we add 6 more. The house is crammed full of stuff that we don't use and never will...stuff that's broken beyond repair. We add new stuff before tossing out old stuff. We put stuff were its convenient...and then we can't find it later. My sons are lazy and have trashed out the house. Although they are teenagers they never clean up after themselves and they expect me to do everything for them. We have 6 kittens living in the house...and its a small house. These kittens expect to be held all the time,they are always in the way,and are noisey...most certainly unwelcome in the house,but to young to be out in the elements. On top of all this...my husband is a rager,excessively negative,with a deeply embedded poverty complex. My 13 year old son is rebellious,demanding,commanding,bossy,selfish,totally unruley. My 18 year old son tends to be a complainer. Ah huh...no wonder I feel stuck...feel like I'm smothering...no wonder things aren't improving.

What to do...deep clean the house...toss out anything that's not being used...toss out anything that's to small,to big,or broken. Organize everything that's being used. To bad you can't toss out some of the family members...LOL. Find a safe place outside for pets to live,unless you enjoy having them in the house...I hate having pets in the house...they disturb,distract,and annoy me.

By deep cleaning,decluttering,and organizing you will feel free,peaceful,and harmonious...you'll feel clean,clear,and empowered.